凝固的回忆

Wednesday, June 28, 2006

无奈者 posted at 12:16 AM | 0 Noticed Me

spinning headache now.. going to need plenty of luck tomorrow for maths tomolo.. omg..

Saturday, June 24, 2006

无奈者 posted at 10:27 PM | 0 Noticed Me

夜深人静时, 默读伤悲

Wednesday, June 21, 2006

无奈者 posted at 7:43 PM | 0 Noticed Me

I'm curious.. hahaz.. pose a question here..

will u all feel jealous when ur best best friend was on good terms with another friend?

hmm.. my answer is no.. cos I believe that everyone needs their own grp of best friends.. best friend do not need to be 1.. in fact, to me, the ideal number is ard 4 to 5.. each friendship is special and unique in their own ways.. and the things that they can talk abt are unique too.. There isn't a friend in the world where u can tell him/her everything.. u will find it easier to confide ur different troubles in different friends.. hence, having more than 1 best friend in fact balances our lives.. haaz.. so there is nothing wrong with ur best friend being on gd terms with another friend of his/her.. hahaz.. as long as u noe how much both of u treasure ur friendship.. tat's the most impt..

和你一同笑过的人,你可能把他忘掉,和你一同哭过的人,你却永远忘不掉. and yes, I believe that true friends are for forever.. : )

Tuesday, June 20, 2006

无奈者 posted at 11:18 PM | 0 Noticed Me

发生一件事, 如果你
喜欢它，那么享受它。
不喜欢，那么避开它。
避不开，那么改变它。
改不了，那么接受它。
改变观念，你就能接受它。

复杂的事情要简单做。
简单的事情要认真做。
认真的事情要重复做。
重复的事情要创造性地做。

人生幸福三诀
第一是：不要拿自己的错误来惩罚自己
第二是：不要拿自己的错误来惩罚别人
第三是：不要拿别人的错误来惩罚自己
有了这三条，人生就不会太累了……

过去的快乐留待回忆,
未来的快乐正在计划,
但快乐只能现在感受!

生命是一次奇遇，用心感受，会有属于自己的惊喜!

如果你要等有了实验室才来做实验的话,
那么有了实验室你也不会做实验。

得意淡然，失意坦然

你可以高烧40度还坚持工作，
但你解决的问题和你制造的麻烦一样多！

不论你在什麽时候开始，
重要的是开始之後就不要停止.
不论你在什麽时候结束，重要的是结束之後就不要悔恨.
你不能左右天气，但你能转变你的心情。
生气是拿别人做错的事来惩罚自己。
credits: http://post.baidu.com/f?kz=10648160

Monday, June 19, 2006

无奈者 posted at 8:43 PM | 0 Noticed Me

I am so tired can.. I dunno y.. I dun even feel like switching on the TV and watch my vcds.. lazy pig me.. I dunno.. feel like my energy is all drained out.. kill me.. I am really worried for gp.. and all the other ongoing revisions seemed so behind time.. so.. kill me or help me..

Sunday, June 18, 2006

无奈者 posted at 9:22 PM | 0 Noticed Me

finally finished watching the academy today.. 36 episodes in all..it must have been because I had stopped too long in the middle that the last few episodes doesn't seem touching at all. But the last episode was ok.. overall.. I would give it a 4.2/5..haaz..

discovered another piece of touching lyrics in the show again.. shall post it here to share with everybody..

强郭富城

需跨多少个山漫漫长路与海
方可真正觅到心里精彩
需经多少次哀几多的障碍赛
才胜利会换来

不知几番跌倒旁人斜视喝采
很不好过但我冲剌不改
只因心中记紧当天
可敬父亲说信我会精彩

强人是你能飞天遁地
其实你了不起
假使你永不说不能做到

强人是你能顶天立地
如败倒再挣起
永没言死才是活着的真理

曾垂头万次仍抬头
又次再战再创这生意义
毋忘慈父那从前留下句子

Saturday, June 17, 2006

无奈者 posted at 8:47 PM | 0 Noticed Me

sometimes.. it is just that hard to satisfy everybody.. dunno y.. conflicts seems to occur most of the time.. whenever we are not careful in handling issues and events..

Very easily in a big clique, one or two gets neglected.. it may all be our fault... sometimes, it may not. Sometimes, an unintentional negligence on our part resulted in such a mistake..However, it is when these things happen, that we feel sorry and helpless.. cos we are the cause of the mistake yet we are in no position to reverse the situation back again.. haiz.. and this type of situations dun only happen once.. it happens once, twice and even thrice..

to the left-out party, it is pretty irritating and saddening.. it is demoralising u noe.. he/she have been a gd friend, always there as a pillar of support for everyone who needs her but yet still receive this type of treatment..

to the others, it is guilt and the regret of not handling the issue better.. Whose fault is it? I dunno.. I really dunno.. maybe there is no right or wrong in the 1st place..

This.. is the complexity of social relationships..

我..只想要大家快乐..

Saturday, June 10, 2006

无奈者 posted at 9:53 PM | 0 Noticed Me

真的觉得我现阶段不适合过很忙碌，很充实的生活。。不为什么，只因为觉得心境还没做好准备，不懂自己有什么本事能够做些什么，更不懂自己给予自我的限制与容忍到什么程度。。这一切，都必须寻觅。。
我，需要时间重新寻找自我。。。。

无奈者 posted at 9:25 PM | 0 Noticed Me

Today's Motivational Quote

CHANGE BEGINS WITH CHOICE by Jim Rohn

Any day we wish; we can discipline ourselves to change it all. Any day we wish; we can open the book that will open our mind to new knowledge. Any day we wish; we can start a new activity. Any day we wish; we can start the process of life change. We can do it immediately, or next week, or next month, or next year.

We can also do nothing. We can pretend rather than perform. And if the idea of having to change ourselves makes us uncomfortable, we can remain as we are. We can choose rest over labor, entertainment over education, delusion over truth, and doubt over confidence. The choices are ours to make. But while we curse the effect, we continue to nourish the cause. As Shakespeare uniquely observed, "The fault is not in the stars, but in ourselves." We created our circumstances by our past choices. We have both the ability and the responsibility to make better choices beginning today. Those who are in search of the good life do not need more answers or more time to think things over to reach better conclusions. They need the truth. They need the whole truth. And they need nothing but the truth.

We cannot allow our errors in judgment, repeated every day, to lead us down the wrong path. We must keep coming back to those basics that make the biggest difference in how our life works out. And then we must make the very choices that will bring life, happiness and joy into our daily lives.

And if I may be so bold to offer my last piece of advice for someone seeking and needing to make changes in their life - If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree. You have the ability to totally transform every area in your life - and it all begins with your very own power of choice.

another piece of article that I received which makes exceptionally a lot of sense..lol..

Wednesday, June 07, 2006

无奈者 posted at 8:06 PM | 0 Noticed Me

人啊，那么肤浅。。。。
总是以为自己拥有了这个，得到了那个，
再辛辛苦苦争取到了自己梦寐以求的东西以后
这样应该就会快乐。。
其实不然。。
结果也还是不快乐。。
因为。。
就像篱笆外的草地特别绿，
国外的月亮特别圆一样
得不到的东西始终最美。。

Saturday, June 03, 2006

无奈者 posted at 4:41 PM | 0 Noticed Me

just got this from my inbox.. how true.. My mind is always somewhere else.. go read it..

WHEREVER YOU ARE, BE THERE by Jim Rohn

One of the major reasons why we fail to find happiness or to create a unique lifestyle is because we have not yet mastered the art of being.

While we are home our thoughts are still absorbed with solving the challenges we face at the office.

And when we are at the office we find ourselves worrying about problems at home.

We go through the day without really listening to what others are saying to us. We may be hearing the words, but we aren't absorbing the message.

As we go through the day we find ourselves focusing on past experiences or future possibilities. We are so involved in yesterday and tomorrow that we never even notice that today is slipping by.

We go through the day rather than getting something from the day. We are everywhere at any given moment in time except living in that moment in time.

Lifestyle is learning to be wherever you are. It is developing a unique focus on the current moment, and drawing from it all of the substance and wealth of experience and emotions that it has to offer.

Lifestyle is taking time to watch a sunset.

Lifestyle is listening to silence.

Lifestyle is capturing each moment so that it becomes a new part of what we are and of what we are in the process of becoming.

Lifestyle is not something we do; it is something we experience. And until we learn to be there, we will never master the art of living well.

Just remember WHEREVER YOU ARE, BE THERE.

When your at work work. When your at play play.

When your talking to you spouse talk to you spouse.

When your talking to your kids talk to your kids.

When your at the dinner table be at the dinner table.

When your at the game be at the game.

When your at the show be at the show be there don't let your mind wander bring your attention back enjoy it for what it is. Give everyone the gift of attention.

i wanna go kbox!! argh.. lol.. thinking of it till I am mad..lol.. and I am so excited!! Jes bought the academy dvd from hk for me!! hohohoho.. she is the best man.. lol.. the show is soo nice to watch... and jes is so nice to me.. muahaha..

Thursday, June 01, 2006

无奈者 posted at 1:33 PM | 0 Noticed Me

cooped up at home today.. simply becos I enjoy being at home!! lol..
prepared tray's present le.. giving it to her tomolo.. happy birthday tray!! hahaz.. sianz.. feel like catching a movie again.. but no real gd movies to watch.. my bro is away at chalet having fun.. leaving me alone at home to 'monolog'.. lol.. it is a relatively boring day today.. haiz..