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Tuesday, July 04, 2006
无奈者 posted at 8:04 PM

had a fantastic weekend.. stayovers and lots of mahjong and food.. hahaz.. and the weekend really feels more interesting than the one month holiday I just had.. lol.. thanks to both jes and constance!! they had both been great hosts!! woohoo!! hahaz.. however, as the weekend ends and the sch term starts.. it is time to face the music. Honestly, I have no idea how I am going to take the blow.. will I be sad or will I kan de kai and not be too bothered by it? I dunno.. I am pretty ok now.. no stress.. but I noe what is in there for me.. results, results and results..

just read ting's blog.. hmm.. seriously.. I didn't noe most of the whole class disagree or rather are not for the idea of a bbq.. and to be honest, I am feeling quite hurt now cos everytime even if we decide to make an outing from a clique to a class, we really wanted everyone to join in and have fun.. if not, we wouldn't bother informing anyone.. we would save smses and the trouble.. really.. the small grp of ppl can just go enjoy themselves, y didn't they?? but now then I realise not everyone understand our intentions..

I should hold some responsibilty for all this turn of events I guess.. I am really sorry we had to cancel the bbq. I sent out the smses yet the bbq have to be cancelled in the end.. however, it is due to lack of funds.. cos all these planning are too spontaneous.. and it is during the exam period.. nobody had the time to collect the money.. and there were only 1 reply out of all the smses..we all weren't sure who will be going.. it will be hard to estimate the amt of stuff to buy and since there were no funds, it means someone will have to fork out the money first.. and I am sure we dun wish history to repeat itself just like the chalet incident.. therefore, we had to cancel it.. if not, I really tink a bbq is a great idea for gd relaxation and class bonding after the jcts.. this is the truth behind the cancellation of the bbq..

recently, I came to understand that what I deemed as acceptable may not applies to the others.. just that not all of us may not necessarily find the idea of the more the merrier fun.. just like not all us like spontaneous events..just like not all of us may like what is planned ahead for us.. in the past, I tot that if I dun mind certain things, how can anyone mind?? cos I believe everyone sort of think alike..but jc life taught me the opposite..it isn't easy planning a grp outing.. maybe next time, I shouldn't really let the info out so early.. I should go make sure that we are 100% having an outing before informing the ppl involved.. this way, it may really please everybody.. again 对事, 不对人..
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