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Monday, August 07, 2006
无奈者 posted at 7:32 PM

Ting mentioned something abt perfectionist in her blog entry..

The term 'perfectionist'.. reminded me of her again.. She is the 1st perfectionist that ever come into my life I suppose.. and until now, I haven't met her match..lol.. Although we are not in contact now, I still think of her ocassionally when I am reminded by the things around me.. lol.. Her perfectionism, is something I couldn't bear at the point of time when I know her..That broke the friendship up too.. Thinking back, guess we just didn't handle things well.. we often quarelled over both trival and sort of impt matters.. but we are still so close.. however, too much quarrels accumulated over time had strained our friendship unknowingly.. We get irritated with one another.. She is displeased with my 'chim cai'ness and I am annoyed by her perfectionism.. in fact, I feel pressurised by her so called perfectionism.. Everytime when I can't meet her expectations, she will always put on a dissatisfied front.. Similarly, I am upset by her high expectations.. And she always succeeded in making me cry everytime after a big quarrel (she is the only one who can do that till now).. Yet, as time fades, what is left behind of the friendship are memories and tears that made the friendship seem so real.. The friendship shared with her is one truly unforgettable..

I thank her for coming into my life and leaving me the valuable things that can only be exchanged with tears and experience.. Sincerely hope that she is doing well in her life too..