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Sunday, December 10, 2006
无奈者 posted at 5:00 AM

sometimes, I am really irritated by the way parents or rather adults impose their views on us.. They like to force us to listen to their opinions and make us heed ur advice.. and u will be amazed.. it may be the simplest thing like just dying ur hair..

What I am asking for isn't too much.. I just want the respect we deserve for our age.. We are in our teens le.. in the past, ppl our age may already be parents.. y can't we decide for ourselves the things we want? I understand adults' worries and concerns but dun tell me we can't even decide for ourselves the simplest thing whether we want to dye our hair not? Must they interfere? And seriously in a conversative family like mine, dying of hair means a lot to them..

dying ur hair = ah beng/ lian = gangster = u have strayed..

wat a gd joke.. yes, this is exactly what adults in my family tink.. and to tink I tot my mother is different.. in the end..

and y must parents always defend themselves when u speak to them nicely and offer them some advice.. take note, is offer.. I let them know what issues ppl our age are sensitive enough and ask them to give us some respect and believe in us in some way or another.. I dun want my parents to be unaware and insensitive about our feelings.. I am trying so hard to let them know abt my brother's feelings for the hope that they will be able to take into consideration my brother's feelings the next time they handle similar matters.. Don't they know my brother is already affected? It is words with the same meaning but if parents can dun be so blunt and speak nicely in another manner, maybe there will not be so much hurt inflicted.. But forget it, adults are ego enuf not to listen to any child's advice.. But just dun forget, we are no longer little kids.. and the traditional way of handling little kids no longer works for us.. Understanding is now the crux to earning communication of ur children..

Haiz..

Forget it.. Despite all the grumbling, my family.. I still love them.. Just hope that my mother will take my words into consideration ba..
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