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a journey not to be forgotten. ♥

Tuesday, July 31, 2007
无奈者 posted at 3:00 PM | 0 Noticed Me



my singtel colleagues..


回不去的从前,叫做回忆。


the best things in life are free.. I wonder how many had forgotten tat..


I just wanna go feel it again.. just before everything starts..


let the pics speak for me.. for once..

Friday, July 27, 2007
无奈者 posted at 11:00 AM | 0 Noticed Me

“没有人会永远迁就你。。”
“这个世界没有欠你什么,没有人有义务为你做任何事。。”

my faves esp the 2nd one.. although I looked unconvinced by your explanation, but actually u noe I have already been taken in by ur views. haha. 口里那些辩解只是不想让自己输得太难看。。lol..

“这个世界没有欠你什么,没有人有义务为你做任何事。。”

I used to think the world of parents.. huge responsibility, heavy burden, gd role models, pillars of support for their children. everything. Well, now I still do. but there is just a shift of mindset that parents dun owe their kids anything. haha. esp to those demanding kids who tink their parents owe them everything. lol. Well, I am quite ashamed to say, but tink that used to me.. haha. but I am giving myself a pat on the shoulder for changing tat. : )

When the love becomes too overwhelming, the most effective way to express it is to say it out verbally. Of cos actions must follow suit after tat.. but 对于那个你爱着的人,你留下的不是瞬间情绪的波动,而是一世的感动,一辈子的甜蜜。。

有你们在身边,是我这辈子最幸福的事。。

Wednesday, July 25, 2007
无奈者 posted at 10:49 PM | 0 Noticed Me

如果问我什么是快乐,我会在人生的什么时候才会有如此感觉,
答案铁定是现在。。。还有往后接下来的日子。

忽然之间似乎明白了幸福和满足之间紧密的关系。

搞什么,我竟然用了大半年,六个月,一百八十天的时间才领悟此道理,a~bish*@#
不过,又想了想,好在迟来了好过没来。haha..

work ended at Aviva nearly 2 wks ago.. and life currently is 100% stress free for me!! wahaha.. I am so satisfied with my present situation, my everyday life that I am cherishing everyday to the fullest.. heh.

Life is pretty routine everyday, I must say.

5.45am - Wake up
6.00am - Jogging (I am really afraid I dun even have the stamina to chase after buses if I dun do some exercise..)
7.15am - Reading of papers + Bathe
8.30am - Hit the bed again (The fave pastime of a pig (me) is to slp..and then slp again.. lol)
10.00am - Watch old TCS show "Blk 168", breakfast
11.00am - down to Fairprice/market to buy the groceries that I require (since I am so free.. lol)
1.00pm- Lunch
1.00pm -6.30pm - Time spent in front of com
6.30pm - Fix dinner
7.00pm - 10.00pm - Be a couch potato
10.00pm - 1.00pm - Lie in bed with some music and a gd bk in hand

my timetable everyday for the past 2 wks.. relaxed and stress free.. although unhealthy.. lol. but I dun care.. I have no idea how life will be after uni starts. Saw lots of teens in their sch uniforms recently and I realised how difficult it is to imagine myself donning the uniform again.. in fact, I can't even imagine.. see what had the 6 mths done to us.. lol.

Saturday, July 21, 2007
无奈者 posted at 3:33 PM | 0 Noticed Me

without realising, it is already mid July 2007.. 2007 is already half gone. can't help exclaiming "Wow~".. lol. was angry at first, because I didn't seem to achieve much during these 7 mths.. Gelare for the first mth, Singtel for the subsequent 3 mths, rest for the 30 days after that..and Aviva work after that. Ta-da~~ 7/12 of the yr gone. lol. was lamenting that maybe the time will better be spent in sch.. at least it wun feel so wasted. However, upon deeper thinking, views and perspectives start to change. These 6 mths had seen some maturity in my character. Work allowed me to meet up with different types of ppl and have a taste of what it is like in the working world out there. I met ppl who I am disguisted with, but at the same time ppl who are inspiring to a great extent.. ppl who I am extremely grateful to and ppl who I had seen their true colors..
I am extremely lucky, I must say. But I very much treasure everything in my possession now. These few mths have fully taught me how to treasure and cherish what I am having now. I am very contented with my possessions in life and it can't be any better. Now the holiday is coming to an end, sch's starting soon! I can't say I am very excited but I am really passionate abt psychology and it is something that I know even if u let me choose another 100 times, the answer will still be it..

chanced upon a few chi quotes, they may be cliche but it still works.

获致幸福的不二法门是珍视你所拥有的、遗忘你所没有的

贪婪是最真实的贫穷,满足是最真实的财富

人的价值,在遭受诱惑的一瞬间被决定

不论你在什么时候开始,重要的是开始之后就不要停止,
不论你在什么时候结束,重要的是结束之后就不要悔恨

抱最大的希望,为最大的努力,做最坏的打算

家!甜蜜的家!天下最美好的莫过于家

当你能飞的时候就不要放弃飞

你的选择是做或不做,但不做就永远不会有机会

Tuesday, July 10, 2007
无奈者 posted at 12:03 AM | 0 Noticed Me

WHAT MAJOR IS RIGHT FOR YOU?
You scored as a Psychology/Sociology
You should strongly consider majoring (or minoring) in Psychology, Sociology, or related majors (e.g., Counseling, Industrial-Organizational (I-O) Psychology, Social Work, or other social science majors).

It is possible that the best major for you is your 2nd, 3rd, or even 5th listed category, so be sure to consider ALL majors in your OTHER high scoring categories (below). You may score high in a category you didnt think you would--it is possible that a great major for you is something you once dismissed as not for you. The right major for you will be something 1) you love and enjoy and 2) are really great at it.

Consider adding a minor or double majoring to make yourself standout and to combine your interests. Psychology and Sociology are both great minors to add to any major. Please post your results in your myspace/blog/journal.
Psychology/Sociology

94%
History/Anthropology/LiberalArts

81%
Accounting/Finance/Marketing

81%
PoliticalScience/Philosophy

81%
Religion/Theology

75%
Nursing/AthleticTraining/Health

69%
French/Spanish/OtherLanguage

69%
HR/BusinessManagement

69%
English/Journalism/Comm

63%
Visual&PerformingArts

56%
Mathematics/Statistics

50%
Education/Counseling

44%
Biology/Chemistry/Geology

44%
Physics/Engineering/Computer

38%

cool.. very accurate.. haha..

Wednesday, July 04, 2007
无奈者 posted at 8:01 PM | 0 Noticed Me

anyway, chanced upon this song on 933FM.. and part of the lyrics bought back some memories..

我想我知道
眼泪的味道
曾经付出的每一天每一年
我不曾想逃..

indeed, 眼泪的味道, 我想我真的知道..