really v touched today.. very very....
小孩子因天真而可爱，因无知而直率，他们的每一句话，都反映他们最真诚的想法。。这样的他们，让我羡慕，更让我感动。。
从无到有，这些日子来，无论是我们的关系或你们的功课， 看着你们一天天的进步，心里好高兴。。
有一次在教你华文时，以为你没把名字写完，于是问你：“你叫李睿什么” 你脸上立刻出现好奇的表情，用你那满英文腔的华语问我：“为什么你懂我的名字？”那一刻，你真的很可爱！！！！！！！
今天，当我要回家时，你们跑来抱我，说一定要在我回家前抱我一下，听了，心里马上觉得很窝心。。泡着我的时候起，你们其中一人开口激动地问：“Xin Hui, will you be here forever? Will you be here forever and ever??"
就是这一些零零碎碎的记忆及感动，让我决定留了下来。。 从你们身上，我得到了最实在，最美的领悟。。你们是我最脆弱无助时给了我所需的快乐与满足。。希望你们天天开心快乐。。esp my little angels: Bern,Ig, Evan, Zong Han, Oliver, Aliaster, Traver, Kerlyn~~ :))
Blood Typle AB
Advantages:
sensitive, proud, diplomatic, discriminating, easy-going, sympathetic, efficient, learns quickly
Disadvantages:
short-tempered, complains, dependent,
moody,
brooding.
Facts: Roughly 4% of the world is AB negative and
1% AB positive.
Traits:
Laid back and outgoing, shy and assertive ,a blend of opposites. Unpredictable, compelling may seem to have calm exterior. Introvert and extrovert friends find them dependable but they may rebel if they are overwhelmed. Unpredictable in social situations sometimes shy with some, bold with others. Strong creative strain. Artist/performer. Everything they do is compelling.
Drawn to psychology, astrology, fortune telling, spiritual.
Good politician or diplomat. Could be too flexible. Good at spotting problems and averting them.
Likes city environments, but may feels claustrophobic. Home must have elements that inspire thought and action. Social, subdued and torn in many directions. Successful at what they do.
Summary: Is mysterious, rational, economical, efficient, often critical, analytical, unemotional, original,
likes to be alone,
gets bored quickly, has good interpersonal skills and contributes harmoniously with society. Well aware of his or her surrounding environment, hates the instinctive feelings, critical, never takes things to the limit or to the best of his or her ability, tries to be useful to other people. Dislikes to be touched by others.
Cool analysis..
A good story which makes me touched no matter how many times I read it..
Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures and a couple by habit.
This year, nearly one hundred thousand women will become mothers of handicapped children. Did you ever wonder how these mothers of handicapped children are chosen?
Somehow visualize God hovering over Earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation. As he observes, he instructs his angels to make notes in a giant ledger.
"Armstrong,Berth: son. Forest, Majorie: daughter"
"Rudledge, Carrie: twins..give her Gerard. He's used to profanity."
Finally, he passes a name to an angel and smiles. "Give her a blind child."
The angel is curious. "Why this one, God? She's so happy."
"Exactly," says God. "Could I give a child with a handicap to a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel."
"But has she patience?" asks the angel.
"I don't want her to have too much patience, or she will drown in a sea of sealf-pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wear off, she'll handle it."
"But, God, I don't think she even believes in you."
God smiles. "No matter. I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough selfishness."
The angel gasps. "Selfsihness? Is that a virtue?"
God nods. "If she can't separate herself from the child ocassionally, she'll never survive. Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with a child less than perfect. She doesn't realise it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a spoken word. She will never consider a step ordinary. When her child says 'Momma' for the first time, she will be present at a miracle and know it! When she describes a tree or a sunset to her blind , she will see it as few people ever see m creations.
"I will permit her to see clearly the things I see-ignorance, cruelty, prejudice- and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of everyday of her life, because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side."
Always enjoy the feeling of having a good book on hand, to accompany you through the toughest, the dullest, the busiest days of life..
and chicken soup is always a good choice.. lols..
anyway, here are some nice extracts from the book I have finished which have offered me great comfort through tough times..:
Don't Quit
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low, and the debts are high,
and you want to smile, but you have to sigh.
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.
Life is queer with its twist and turns
as every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out
Don't give up though the pace seems slow,
You may succeed with another blow.
Success is a failure turned inside out,
the silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
and you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far,
so stick to the fight when you're hardest hit,
It's when things seem worst, that you must not quit.
"Each of us has the right and responsibility to assess the roads which lie ahead, and those over which we have travelled, and if the future road looms ominous or unpromising, and the roads back uninviting, then we need to gather our resolve and, carrying only the necessary baggage, step off that road into another direction. If the new choice is also unpalatable, without embarassment, we must be ready to change that as well..."
Peseverence
When all the world is looming dark
and things seem not so clear,
When shadows seem to hover' round
May I persevere.
When it seems everything's been tried
And there's no way to go,
Just let me keep remembering
Sometimes the journey's slow
I may just need to stop and rest
Along the path I trod,
A time to try to understand
And have my talk with God.
As I gain new strength to carry on
Without a doubt or fear,
Somehow I know things will be right,
And so, I persevere.
"Be not afraid of going slowly. Be afraid of standing still.."
"Everyone has problems: single parents, young folks, old folks, married people, unmarried people. It isn't the problems themselves that are harmful. It's letting them block you from feeling the powerful force that God had given you to compensate for them.."
"The only guaranteed moment is this one; therefore, if we live our lives expecting a future that may not exist, we may regret our choices forever.."
Sorrow
In this sad world of ours, sorrow comes to all,
and it often comes with bitter agony.
Perfect relief is not possible,
except with time.
You cannot now believe that you will ever feel better.
But this is not true.
You are sure to be happy again.
Knowing this,
truly believing it,
will make you less miserable now.
I have had enough experience to make this statement.
"Neve afraid to be afraid..Fear is never a reason for quitting; it's only an excuse. When a brave man encounters fear, he admits it-and goes on despite it.."
"You listened to fear and you fell.."
"You can't control what life dishes out. You can only choose how you deal with it, and who stands up with you.."
"I celebrate
Making plans
Dreaming
The hoping that goes with having a future.
I celebrate life..."
x.i.n.h.u.i