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Wednesday, August 09, 2006
无奈者 posted at 6:04 AM

learnt a new chpt of life today.. friendship.. I may have to re-define it again.. There are really people with different personalities out in this world.. some value friendship much to the extent that they can die for their best friend, some see friends as only accquaintances to see u through different periods of time while others just remain neutral.. To me, true friendship is something worth cherishing but family should always hold the most impt place in one's heart.. No doubt it is hard to meet someone who really understands u in the midst of the crowd, but it is harder to be in a family.. we all noe that the love and care that our families gave are incomparable to other types of love.. From another viewpoint, some may simply put family as top priority as an act of self-defence. These people are usually victims of their relationships with people..

How far can u go for frienship? It wasn't simply a test for limits but a matter of how much can we scarifice for our friends.. I can help a friend in need, giving her support if she needs it, covering up for their mistakes if necessary but I dun tink I can go as far as to forgiving their betrayal.. Once broken, everything's gone like a mirror.. It is hard for the 2 friends to get as close again.. One new point: Does scarificing to a larger extent makes u a better friend or a more worthy friend? Logically, it is a no but emotionally and sadly, it would be a yes.. The extent of our scarifice shouldn't be used to measure friendship but we all would love to have these type of friends, won't we? I would want friends to shield me from facing the consequences of my mistake too.. Who wouldn't like to get away scott-free from their mistake?

Just when I thought I am on the road to recovery, I realised there's still a long way to go.. And because of a nightmare, things can never be the same again..

and btw, kudos to cg 2505.. to our our beloved classmates who attended the class lunch yesterday and esp to cindy and li xuan.. Thanks for sending us the photos and they were all fantastic! Have a happy national day, guys! : )
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