Tuesday, September 26, 2006
无奈者 posted at 8:39 PM
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The saying goes.. what is most impt is the process and not the results.. I believe in this saying.. however, given Man's character, even if we believe in the saying, we will never be willing to accept this theory completely..
Yes, no doubt that winning the competition alone does not necessarily mean u r the true winner.. however, if we dun win, we are always so unwilling to accept defeat.. Our utmost concern will be the actual status we gained as a result of the competition.. Being 2nd doesn't mean tat u aren't the best.. and although getting first may not necessarily mean u r the best, but ironically it is also a form of slient confirmation that u r the best.. while the others can only be behind u..
Sometimes, I wonder.. I noe results aren't the best gauge of our capability.. but yet it can sucessfully demoralise us.. making us believe that we are actually inferior.. what a joke.. At the end of the day, if u see it frm a bigger pic, the true winner is one who picks himself up frm failure and head towards the path of success.. He/she will then win both results and character..
Saturday, September 23, 2006
无奈者 posted at 9:17 AM
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ooooo........ it is so fun yesterday!! we went sentosa and had a fantastic time in the water and taking quite a lot of photos..lol..
the last time we went.. on jes bdae.. I didn't expect the next time we came will be after prelims.. the next next time will be after A's le ba.. I got the feeling that time really flies again.. However, this time round, I am not sad tat I am graduating.. tat our clique will be dispersed after jc.. cos I tink I sort of noe tat leaving is part and parcel of our life.. we always have to move on in search of better memories of our life.. also, if we try hard enough, we can still keep in contact with each other.. Maybe some of us may drift off, maybe some of us will be studying overseas.. maybe we may all go into different areas of our careers.. maybe it is just so hard to stay in touch and stay as close as ever.. but who knows? If it is fated, we will grow even closer.. hahaz..
yah, we are all having steamboat at jes's hse later! It will be our first 'reunion dinner'!! I am so excited can.. the clique makes me feel like a big family.. so heartwarming.. thanks also to her mom for sponsoring the dinner! : )
ok, my br came back with my breakfast le.. I am gg to eat le.. haaz..
只友情不变
词:周礼茂曲:陈光荣
球场上回想起从前
不期然微笑涌心间
不经意又一年
一年覆一年老朋友
永远也不曾走远
心里依然相连
就算少了见面
时间会变,世界会变
一切转眼沧海桑田
只友情不变
真心已超出了语言
每一次再相见
那滋味难得一样不变
明天一起奔向前
依然肩并肩
友情就像昨天(今天)(永远)
now and then think of you and me
forever will betime is changing
but nothing's to be blamed
cos our hearts forever sing
*repeat
无奈者 posted at 3:44 AM
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oh.. yt tagged me to finish this.. honestly, I feel honoured..hoho..1. Put ur music player on shuffle2. Press forward for each question3. Use the song tittle as the answer to the question even if it doesn't make sense. No cheating.4. Tag 6 ppl to play this game too. : )How are u feeling today?好夜晚Good Night Liang Jing Ru美好的夜晚星星是烛光我们都陶醉在幻想Will u get far in life?人生海海 (such a coincidence.. lol)天天都漫无目的偏偏又想要证明真理别人从屁股放屁我却每天每天都说要革命常常我豁出去拚了命走过却没有痕迹但是啊在我心底却完完全全不想放弃..anyway, 'far' in this case is self-defined.. lol.. even a step to some is considered far..How do ur friends see u?孤单北半球 by lin yi cheng别怕我们在地球的两端看我的问候骑着魔毯飞用光速飞到你面前..wow.. is this true? hahaz..Will u get married?qi shi ni bu dong wo de xin.. by weilian..lol..你说我像云捉摸不定,其实你不懂我的心..你说我像谜总是看不清,其实我永不在乎掩藏真心..What's ur best friend's theme song?不安 by li sheng jie..seriously, I dunno 不安 for wat.. lol.. for losing my best friend? We don't lose our best friend.. they are forever in our hearts..What's the story of ur life?爸我回来了.. omg.. this is funny..*grins*my parents, my family holds the key to my life.. they are my story..What was high school like?Make a wish by zai zai让我们 make a wish make a wish 一起约定看最美风景这一切都不会是梦境只要你全心全意相信.. (I like this..completely fits my high sch tots..)How can u get ahead in life?最想念的季节 - pin guan人生多么善变啊,不像想的那么容易..是谁说的有舍才有得..最想念的季节,最初的那一天..往事如云烟停在那一年最想念的季节有人记得吗?The crux lies in 2 words.. 舍得What is the best thing abt ur friends?宁夏 - liang jing ru思念着你的脸我可以假装看不见也可以偷偷的想念..What's in store for this weekend?不是对手 - li sheng jie寂寞根本不是对手.. yup.. this weekend is going to be a fun-filled one.. 寂寞根本不是对手.. haaz..What song describes u?恒心的恒心星星那夜空多神秘, 要是落泪滴世界都要下雨我只是没发现故事已结局, 我还在坚定老了累了倦了变了那不会是我不会是我I am determined to be a strong (jian qiang) person..To describe ur grandparents?终结孤单 - maydayelderly people.. tend to feel lonely when they age..What song will they play at your funeral?透明 -liu ruo yingby then, 我的心最透明.. by then, everything has to be 透明..How does the world see u?花 - mayday这一生这一次为自己抬起头至少要骄傲的盛开过..life is short.. we have to do some things for ourselves to make it worthwhile..Will u have a happy life?最快乐那一年 - liang jing ru最快乐那一年, 什么都生动又强烈有真正在活着的感觉短暂却永远是火焰..365 days of quality life out of a lifetime is really sufficient.. not many ppl can achieve tat.What do ur friends really think of u?瓦解 - nan quan ma manice song.. lol..Do ppl secretly lust after u?我曾爱过一个男孩 - liu ruo yinglol.. the answer is pretty obvious.. haazHow can I make myself happy?那年我们十七岁 - he run dong我早该知道永远不变的只有改变..翻开那些旧照片就好像回到从前在心里面的里面永远停在那年的海边..Indeed, photos make my day..What shld u do with ur life?I like tis.. 回家.. hahaha!be here, just be there, be everywhere.. be with the ppl who needs me..Will u ever have children?有你在 - fish leong (again)有你在,爱或悲哀都让生命不再平凡一颗心要用笑和泪才能装的满with them, life shld be a different matter after all..Phew! I finally finished the 20 qns..Here are the few..1) Xue ying2) Van3) angel4) ah chua5) simin6) Cheryl
Thursday, September 21, 2006
无奈者 posted at 9:50 PM
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it feels so good to be online.. my precious modem is finally working.. lol..
Saturday, September 09, 2006
无奈者 posted at 7:54 PM
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read jiamin's blog.. wat will I do within the next 5 years..- be filial to my parents- earn capital for my cafe :)- consult a financial planner and start a investment cum savings plan..- learn how to bake delicious and 'gd looking' cakes- be passionate abt my job (no matter whether I am interested in it or not.)- go on a tour to Vienna with Tracy and S.H.I.T- still keep in contact with S.H.I.T, our clique and every existing friend then..- learn the piano- clean my room.. hoho.. (I reckon my room will only be clean after I grad frm uni..hehe)- keep a diary and be able to pen my tots down in 'chim' words..- master korean language together with ls- go backpacking and skiing with ls in korea- take up photography- watch lots and lots of vcds esp korean de.- be on gd terms with my bro's gf.. (he shld have a gf by then.. haaz..)- do a little DIY learning on interior designing so that I can design the interior of my shop myself. : )- organise a chalet for 2 gr again.. : )- still play bball with our clique.. : )- go watch a stefanie sun concert- learn tarot reading..that's all.. pretty easy.. not too demanding.. lol.
Friday, September 08, 2006
无奈者 posted at 11:56 PM
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终于明白,
在你为朋友掉一滴眼泪的那一刹那, 他将成为你永远无法忘怀的人..
现实一点的话,
朋友要相互付出 虽然自己的付出不是为了回报,但也要彼此感到幸福
此外,
不要把别人的好，视为理所当然。要知道感恩.
还有
不要期望所有人都喜欢你，那是不可能的，让大多数人喜欢就是成功的表现。
当然,
自己要喜欢自己。
另外,
在人的一生活中的感情股份制:40%是爱情,30%是亲情,15%是友情,15%是私人空间.
一个普通的朋友从未看过你哭泣。
一个真正的朋友有双肩让你的泪水湿尽。
一个普通的朋友不知道你父母的姓氏。
一个真正的朋友有他们的电话在通讯簿上。
一个普通的朋友会带瓶葡萄酒参加你的派对.
一个真正的朋友会早点来帮你准备,为了帮你打扫而晚点走。
一个普通的朋友讨厌你在他睡了后打来。
一个真正的朋友会问为什么现在才打来。
一个普通的朋友找你谈论你的困扰。
一个真正的朋友找你解决你的困扰。
一个普通的朋友对你的罗曼史感到好奇。
一个真正的朋友可以威胁你说出来。
一个普通的朋友在拜访时，像一个客人一样。
一个真正的朋友会打开冰箱自己拿东西。
一个普通的朋友在吵架后就认为友谊已经结束。
一个真正的朋友明白当你们还没打过架就不叫真正的友谊。
一个普通的朋友期望你永远在他身边陪他。
一个真正的朋友期望他能永远陪在你身旁 ！
random quotes.. random rants..
Thursday, September 07, 2006
无奈者 posted at 11:12 PM
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feeling vexed recently.. somebody save me.. a lot of things had happened.. and I simply dunno who to turn to.. all I noe is.. my world is getting complicated.. and wat I see and noe aren't necessarily the truth.. can things be simple for once? I am so tired.. ying, S.H.I.T.. I miss u all.. argh!! and ting, I am sorry k.. forgive me for not having the courage to tell u wat I am sorry abt..as time goes by, we seem to complicate relationships and all other things in our life.. Why can't ppl just live by the trust we had in one another? Why must ppl doubt each other and live in suspicion and misery? Why must there be badmouthing, dishonesty and all the other undesirable actions in reality? Why, why why? Am I a fool to believe that there is actually good in this world? I mean I dun blame all those ppl.. cos I may be one of them too.. Humans do err.. but at least I try my best not to commit all those mistakes.. Just when I am affected by these, suddenly I realise.. why should I be so affected by it when they all seemed to be insignificant matters? lol..I am currently vexed over a lot of matters and have no energy to deal with any other problems.. so, please spare me all tat crap. That's enough.. San shun had taught me one thing and that is.. be true..be real.. be able to answer to urself no matter wat happens.
Friday, September 01, 2006
无奈者 posted at 9:03 PM
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I realise.. I.. dun like white chocolate anymore.. I used to love it for what it is, its milky taste, its everything.. now, no matter how I force myself to like it, I still dun like it.. lol..this applies to everything dun they? There are no eternity in this world.. there are no forever enemies nor are there forever friends.. Things do change.. without us knowing until they had changed. By then, things are a whole lot different..If everybody had a choice to use chocolates to represent their lives, most people would surely wish to use their favourite chocolates to represent their lives.. be it white or milk chocolates.. all of us would want our lives to be smooth-sailing and as sweet as the chocolates.. Our lives are special indeed.. in a way that it is a bar of dark chocolate.. It has its own share of bitterness but the sweetness will come after that.. Life is fair if we are fair ourselves. Only when we noe how to enjoy the rich, dark chocolate, we will then noe how to savour our life.. I.. dun like dark chocolate yet.. but I am still awaiting for the day when I will love the taste of it.. are u? : )
x.i.n.h.u.i