即使没有什么值得兴奋的事情 没有什么特别高兴的事 你也可以试着展颜一笑 所谓幸福 并不是因为感觉幸福而微笑 反而是因为微笑而感受幸福你就是天空中那颗最大最亮的大星星 整个星空因为有你的陪伴而变的那么明亮 而我就是那颗不起眼的小星星 那么渺小,那样暗淡 但它在小也有希望 也有梦想 它希望有一天大星星可以注意到它 把自己身上的光芒 照射到自己的身上 毕竟它们之间的距离是那么那么的接近 只有一光年而已 我的世界只有欢笑，不知道你是否想要？何不过来瞧瞧？逗你笑笑，没什么大不了。你微笑，证明我没白闹。只要你好，一切都不重要 把春天装在心中，人生就没有冬季！ 能屈能伸，能粗能细，能软能硬，看准机会就能耗尽所有精力去奋斗，没有机会就朴朴实实，养精蓄锐。---做人之道神也是人 只不过做了人做不到的事情所以成了神坚持就是胜利！用钱买得到的东西都不贵。 脚走得到的地方都不远。恨,有时是误用了爱的力量简单一点,快乐一点~有些人事 原本我早该遗忘或淡忘 可是无论过去多久 我依然能清晰的感觉到 他们一直固执地潜伏在我的心底刺痛我 有人说这叫刻骨铭心世界上最珍贵的是什么？ 不是已失去的，也不是未得到的。 而是现在拥有的幸福年轻的时候以为什么事情都要做到最后 什么问题都有答案 总在问为什么 到年老的时候才发现这世界并不是每个问题都有答案 每件事都有结果 有些问题没有答案就是最后的答案 有的事情没有结果就是最好的结果 忘记过去等于重蹈覆辙甜的东西总会让人腻，有一点点苦，才真实, 就象巧克力别拿我的容忍当作你不要脸的资本~人本来简单，是看的人复杂了~可以拥有爱，但不要执著，因为分离是必然的开心时,微笑是最好的装饰~ 伤心时,微笑是最好的掩饰~!感动:每个女孩都曾是无泪的天使，当遇到自己喜欢的男孩时，便会流泪一一，于是坠落凡间变为女孩，所以，男孩一定不要辜负女孩，因为女孩为你放弃整个天堂。那些我们念念不忘的事情就在我们念念不忘的过程里被我们遗忘了一个人总要走陌生的路， 看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌， 然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现， 原本费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就这么忘记了。一个人要学会在记忆中选择， 那么他才会经常快乐！每个人都有自己的经典，因为那是他所经历所感动的那一刻。幸福有幸福的空间，梦想并不容易实现， 醒来的时候才突然发现自己一直都在幸福的旁边 (歌词)人往往能记住痛苦``因为痛苦比快乐更为深刻我喜欢雨天一个人走在大街上, 因为这时的你看不到我在流泪!爱你不久 就一辈子当我们擦身而过 那短短一秒钟 明白什么都变了世界有时候孤单的很需要另一个同类 (yanzi's 同类)窗台上有盆小仙人掌 在都市的水泥丛林里 满身的刺是抵御别人还是反叛自己 站的高 是不是真的就能够看的远？ 世界上最遥远的距离不是生与死 而是我就站在你面前你却不知道我爱你 世界上最遥远的距离不是我就站在你面前你却不知道我爱你 而是明明知道彼此相爱却不能在一起 世界上最遥远的距离不是明明知道彼此相爱却不能在一起 而是明明无法抵挡这股思念 却还装做丝毫没有把你放在心上 -----泰戈尔 ( I saw part of this in movie' Chinese Tall Story.. qing dian da sheng)为何到无话可说 才懂 沉默比争吵更难熬我没有鞋我抱怨，直到有一天我看到有人没有脚！有些事，不是忘不了，而是不想忘 有些事，不是不想忘，而是忘不了 有些事，只要放在心中就好世上只有妈妈好.眼泪会有，笑容也会有，当眼泪夹着笑容那是幸福的时候.什么事情，只要你心甘情愿什么都很简单.(be sure to look out for part 2..)
saw this very meaningful post on the web.. so decided to post it up too to share with everybody.. : ) (frm
http://post.baidu.com/f?kz=18989191)
世上最经典的25句话1)记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的.2)能冲刷一切的除了眼泪，就是时间，以时间来推移感情，时间越长，冲突越淡，仿佛不断稀释的茶.3) 怨言是上天得至人类最大的供物，也是人类祷告中最真诚的部分.4) 智慧的代价是矛盾。这是人生对人生观开的玩笑.5) 世上的姑娘总以为自己是骄傲的公主(除了少数极丑和少数极聪明的姑娘例外)6) 如果敌人让你生气，那说明你还没有胜他的把握7) 如果朋友让你生气，那说明你仍然在意他的友情.8) 有些事情本身我们无法控制，只好控制自己.9) 我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的，那些是错的，而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些。所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事，然后等待着老死 .10) 也许有些人很可恶，有些人很卑鄙。而当我设身为他想象的时候，我才知道：他比我还可怜。所以请原谅所有你见过的人，好人或者坏人.11) 鱼对水说你看不到我的眼泪，因为我在水里.水说我能感觉到你的眼泪，因为你在我心里。12) 快乐要有悲伤作陪，雨过应该就有天晴。如果雨后还是雨，如果忧伤之后还是忧伤.请让我们从容面对这离别之后的离别。 微笑地去寻找一个不可能出现的你！13) 死亡教会人一切，如同考试之后公布的结果——虽然恍然大悟，但为时晚矣~！14) 你出生的时候，你哭着，周围的人笑着；你逝去的时候，你笑着，而周围的人在哭！一切都是轮回!!!! 我们都在轮回中!!!! 15) 男人在结婚前觉得适合自己的女人很少，结婚后觉得适合自己的女人很多.16) 于千万人之中，遇见你所遇见的人；于千万年之中，时间的无涯荒野里，没有早一步，也没有晚一步，刚巧赶上了。17) 每个人都有潜在的能量，只是很容易:被习惯所掩盖，被时间所迷离,被惰性所消磨 .18) 人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己19) 当幻想和现实面对时，总是很痛苦的。要么你被痛苦击倒，要么你把痛苦踩在脚下.20) 真正的爱情是不讲究热闹不讲究排场不讲究繁华更不讲究嚎头的.21) 生命中，不断地有人离开或进入。于是，看见的，看不见的；记住的，遗忘了。 生命中，不断地有得到和失落。于是，看不见的，看见了；遗忘的，记住了。 然而，看不见的，是不是就等于不存在？记住的，是不是永远不会消失？22) 我们确实活得艰难，一要承受种种外部的压力，更要面对自己内心的困惑。在苦苦挣扎中，如果有人向你投以理解的目光，你会感到一种生命的暖意，或许仅有短暂的一瞥，就足以使我感奋不已.23) 我不去想是否能够成功,既然选择了远方,便只顾风雨兼程; 我不去想,身后会不会袭来寒风冷雨,既然目标是地平线,留给世界的只能是背影.24) 后悔是一种耗费精神的情绪.后悔是比损失更大的损失,比错误更大的错误.所以不要后悔.25) 日出东海落西山，愁也一天，喜也一天；遇事不钻牛角尖，人也舒坦，心也舒坦.I personally love quotes 2, 6, 7, 11 (I am very touched when I read this..), 12, 17, 19, 21I agree with quotes 3, 4, 8, 16, 24I hope I can achieve quotes 1, 8, 9, 10, 12, 18, 19, 24, 25..what abt u? is new year's eve today.. happy chinese year everybody.. may we all mature after this new year and work hard towards our goals!took a career personality test and this is part of what it says..
"you are well-balanced and place equal importance on work as on your personal life. You are dedicated to maintaining a level of culture in your life and therefore won't sacrifice interesting work for high pay. With your high energy and chameleon-like adaptabilities, you seek work that is fast-paced and ever-changing. Working directly with people provides you with that outlet. On top of it, you have an uncanny ability to keep peace and maintain a level of serenity and happiness in your environment. If emotions flare up in the room, people look to you to pull out a story or joke that deflates the tension. You prefer to live in the moment and appreciate what life and work offer now. The future is unknowable and does not draw you in like the present. Part of your easy-going outlook toward the future has to do with knowing that you can adapt to whatever comes your way."
It is already 1 plus in the morning now.. and I am real tired.. shan't say much.. just watch korean drama ' I am Kim San Soon" on ch 55.. quite nice.. but not as nice as I imagined it out to be.. nite! sweet dreams to me.. : )
I realised that I have not noticed a lot of things in my surroundings.. luckily mx is there to enlighten me.. his words, his experience really made me reflect a lot on my actions.. do I really want to stay playful and happy-go-lucky this whole year, neglecting my studies but still believing that I can work hard in time for A's? or should I start really start studying now and let my actions show it, and hopefully enjoying the fruits of success at the end of the year? The latter is obviously a more tedious route.. but at the same time, it will be more secure and promising for me too. I kept complaining that I have no discipline and motivation.. but these will come when we put words into actions.. if we only say it loud without any action, it is no wonder that we complain abt the lack of discipline.. u have to implement wat u say first b4 u noe how much discipline u really got.
and I realised I haven't been thinking too.. I had already lived nearly 18 years of my life and yet I had not once think maturely.. I should really care for my loved ones and not disappoint them. Like mx say, they will be the most affected when anything happens to us. When we pass our exams with flying colors, they will be the ppl that are most happy for u.. when u r down, they will be with u, feeling upset themselves but they are still there for you no matter what.
I am once upset that I am not a perfect person.. but now that I can see a broader pic, I realise that I am the most fortunate. I have got a blissful family, where everybody are healthy and happy. There are my doting parents, a wonderful bro who often fight pillow fights with me but I know he cares for me and a caring godma.. this is what I should treasure and cherish. They will always be my top priority. It is time I should really think for myself and do something for them too.
For the past year, I used to put friends on top of work. I don't mind making few friends, but I care that they must be of the same frequency as me. Once I achieved that, I am contented. Even when my work is in a mess, I dun mind. Now, I realise that it was wrong of me to do that. The important thing is we must learn to priortise. Only when u put ur priorties right can u achieve what u really want. Now that I am typing all these, it is not meant to be offensive.. and I believe some of u will even agree with me. Only true friends dun leave u in the lurch and time is the best witness to a friendship. Like wine, the longer, the better.
Hence, I had decided. I will start studying from now on.. I am going to do it for myself and most importantly, my loved ones. I really want to show them how much I loved them and how important they are in my life. Also, I would also liked to prove to all those ppl who had looked down on me or misjudged me one way or another that they are wrong. Despite years of experience, there will be times when they are wrong.
It will be tough but I certainly won't want to have any regrets later. Tougher now means less regrets later on. I know it will be worth it.
suddenly, I feel extremely lucky that they are lots of caring ppl ard me, constantly warning us of the dire consequences that we may face if we continue they way we behave now. Thanks to all of them, u noe who u r..
I am here to sum up my holidays!! Today is the last day le..haaz.. ohh..btw, paris lovers is real nice~ considering to buy the VCD next week.. not this week..cos this week is homework week!! I must clear all holiday homework by this week..hehez.. 十大战利品如下：
1)redecorating my room!!
2) 韩剧新娘18岁
3)韩剧美好/完美人生？
4)韩剧巴里岛的故事
5)重看浪漫满屋
6)五本浪漫满屋漫画
7)3 archie comics
8)电影新扎师妹
9)movie cinderalla story
10)surf countless hours of net.. (",)
yup, tat's sums up all.. can't imagine 2 mths of holidays is up.. haaz.. spend the time working and having fun.. tomolo will be back-to-school day. Time to ignore the distractions.. 用功lo! go go加油！
x.i.n.h.u.i